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All in all assume goodwill. The negativity and anger she may express may be a cover for the vulnerability and doubts that she’s afraid to express directly. She may say things that hurt you, but rather than react to those things by lashing out (and thereby escalating the fight), calmly call her on them and let her know that she doesn’t need to try to hurt you out of her fear and anger. Of course, on your side try to keep the discussions on point, and don’t say things you might not mean simply for effect. Arguing well takes a lot of self control, and you sometimes might have to compensate for your partner’s lack of it. Thank goodness constructive arguing is a skill that can be learned, and gets easier with practice. Good luck. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 4 Thumb down 0 Reply Capt. Jack Sparrow says: August 18, 2011 at 2:44 pm After 2 years, you should have a sense about whether you want to marry your girlfriend. I’m not saying you should get married tomorrow, but you should have a good sense. I think, after 2 years together, she should be entitled to know what your long-term plans are and how she fits into them. She has a right to your honest thoughts on the matter. If you want to marry her, don’t string her along. If you want to marry her after X, Y, Z … then tell her as much. <a href="https://russian-women.jouwstartonline.nl/">Dilemma For Guys With Tight Dating Game</a></p> <p><a href="https://russian-women.toplinkjes.com/">Don&rsquo;t Even Bother Veryifying Her Phone Number</a></p> <p><a href="https://russian-women.handigestart.nl/">Types Of Dating Game</a></p> <p><a href="https://russian-women.sellerconnect.de/">Are You A Real Man?</a></p> <p><a href="https://russian-women.koalahilfe.de/">Balancing Emotion and Detachment in Game</a></p> <p><a href="https://russian-women.jougids.nl/">The Danger of Rationalization in Decision-Making</a></p> <p><a href="https://russian-women.vindhier.com/">How Important Is The Attractiveness Of Your Wingman?</a></p> <p><a href="https://russian-women.vindnu.com/">Why You Don&rsquo;t Get Laid</a></p>